42 Harsh life lessons everyone should learn..:)

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  1. Jokerlal

    Jokerlal ★★★★

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    It is a bit lengthy but believe me its worth reading..

    LOVE - Invariably, a gateway to Heartbreak!

    1) Expectation is the root of all heartache! - Never underestimate a person’s ability to disappoint you.

    2) Loving others more than yourself might be a dangerous proposition - Invariably, you’ll end up being taken for granted.

    3) The problem with always putting others first is that - you’ve taught them you come second!

    4) ‘Love Selflessly’ doesn’t apply to this modern world.

    5) When you care for someone (or love someone) more than what they deserve, you get hurt more than what you can endure.

    TRUST - But not with your eyes closed!

    6) Trust, but not beyond a limit - Even if the person in question is your special someone. Sooner or later, you’ll know why.

    7) When you trust someone completely, you get either of the 2 results : a person for life, or a lesson for life!

    FRIENDS or F.R.I.E.N.D.S ?

    8) Most of whom you call friends are at best, just acquaintances - They’ll only show up until you’re successful, not when life decides to screw you up. So, stop worrying about them.

    9) True friends are rare, and are seldom found.

    Identification ? Well, as the old saying goes : “A friend in need is a friend indeed!”

    (Breakups, and the terrible phase we go through after that!)

    10) Love in your 20’s is mostly just a farce. Don’t end up believing that you’re going to spend the rest of your life with them. They came in your life and they left, but it was all for a reason!

    “Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know!”

    11) ‘Moving on’ should not be an option; it should be a PRIORITY!

    Priority Level 5 !!

    12) Not everything in this life is meant to be how you’d like it to be or want it to be.

    13) ‘Break-up’ is seemingly the worst thing that can happen to you in Life. Only ‘seemingly’ !

    In reality, however, it is the best thing that can happen to you.

    Trust me when I say, in the long run, even Break-ups have a purpose. They only make you mature, wiser and stronger. And DETERMINED! And SUCCESSFUL !!

    14) PAST CANNOT CHANGE! - So, stop pondering over it, and stop worrying about it! (You’ll never meet a strong person with an easy past).

    What you can do best, instead, is SAVE YOUR ‘FUTURE’! And for that you’re gonna have to make your ‘PRESENT’ count! ,


    16) Feeling are like waves - We cannot stop them from coming to us, but we sure can choose which ones to surf on!

    17) ACCEPT IT!

    18) If instead of a priority, someone makes you an option, make sure that he/she is soon history, lost and forgotten!

    19) Be happy in front of the people you don’t like, it kills them! :P

    20) There is time in letting your life revolve around someone else. But today, let it revolve around you. - ‘Your time’ is limited; don’t waste it living someone else’s life.

    PEOPLE - Learn to read them!

    21) For most part of your 20’s, you live with the belief that you know people.

    And then, THEY SURPRISE YOU !!

    22) Most people have 2 faces : the one you see, and the one they don’t want you to see - Get conversant with the easy identification of the latter, and as soon as possible. OR else, you’re gonna find yourself under some serious trouble!

    23) ‘Honesty’ is a very expensive gift. Don’t expect it from ‘Cheap’ people.

    24) Talk sense to a fool, and he calls YOU a Foolish!

    25) Never approach a bull from the front, a horse from the rear, and an idiot from any direction!

    26) Do whatever the ************ you want to do. Because in the end, people are assholes and will judge you anyway!

    LIFE - is always a bitch! Or, is SHE? ;-)

    27) “Me : I’m finally happy!

    Life : Lol . . . wait a sec!!”

    28) Life is not a having and a getting, but a being and a becoming.

    “Heartbreak : THE REVIVAL”

    29) No one in this world has the power to shatter your dreams, unless you give it to them!

    30) The past can’t hurt you anymore, NOT UNLESS you let it !!

    31) Question your goals, NEVER YOUR WORTH!!

    32) You’ll have bad times; but in the end, it will always be to wake you up to the good things you weren’t paying attention to!

    33) All good things take time! - “If good things were that easy to find, they wouldn’t be worth finding. Would they? ;-)”

    “Moving On - An Inspiration/A Motivation”


    35) The will to win is not nearly as important as the will to prepare to win!

    36) No one rises suddenly in this world - NOT EVEN THE SUN!!

    Success is not achieved overnight. It comes in installments; you get a little bit today, a little bit tomorrow until the whole package is given out. The day you procrastinate, you lose that day’s success!

    “Moving On - A Success Story!”

    37) You are what you do, not what you say you’ll do!

    38) Some dream of it, while others stay awake and work for it.

    39) Let them sleep while you toil. Let them party while you work.


    In the end - NEVER GIVE UP!

    40) ‘THE PAIN of REACHING YOUR GOAL’ will only last a short while. However, ‘THE PAIN of NOT TRYING’ will last a LIFETIME!


    42) The beginning of your story doesn’t make you who you are




    THE END DOES !!..:)
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  2. wmnitin

    wmnitin ✌✌✌✌✌ Staff Member Administrator ProActive

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    Already applied some of them, life changing quotes :troll5: